Cheating habit

Not sure who is more unlucky, a married friend whom I bump into who was hugged by another woman or me who saw the action head on???

My first reaction when I saw him was, 'hey' but before I could complete my sentence, I was shocked by the woman hugging him from behind, who was not his wife. His first reaction was walk quickly up the escalator, what does that mean? He is gulity? There was no moment of doubt in me about what I saw and obviosuly I was distrub and felt extremely disgusted, his wife just gave birth to a baby boy and here he is out cheating?

What happened to the marriage vow, is there still trust in marriage these days?

Serious during meeting

We were very serious when attending our company meeting...really.

Serious taking photo when CEO went out of the room to answer his call.

Food poisoning

Nope, this time it wasn't me. It was Louis who is down with the virus, we suspected that the Salmon Sashimi he had last night wasn't fresh.

Poor thing..

Heart Mur mur

Life cannot be more drama , was told by my friend (financial planner) that my recent medical show that I have heart mur mur and Heart Valve protection has been excluded from the new policy that i just took up.

Heart murmurs are abnormal sounds made by turbulent blood in or near your heart during your heartbeat, so my friend asked if the doctor was extreme good looking that causing my heart to beat at an abnormal speed? Joking, i remember the doctor was not too tall and not too good looking.

Based on the information that I read from Internet, Heart Mur mur is quite common and usual innocent and might be a one of condition or it might dissapear over time, but still it could be a sign of something more critical. Not giving any chances, I am going for a detailed Cardio check up just to be sure.

Do not agitate me, I might really have Heart attack.

Why?

I have more than 16 years experience of carrying babies of all age and sizes and my brother doubt my ability to handle his 4 months old son. Is this an insult or an act of an overly protective father? I told him, don't let it be a burden to care for your children. Since the birth of my niece, the best and only way of taking of his kid is over-protection. Frankly speaking, it is very tiring to be at his place. We have to be at our 'best' behaviour and restricted movement. At some point, I felt very unwelcome and disappointed.

Why is my brother behaving this way? He can't trust us, who is suppose to be his closest kin other than his wife and kids? I don't have to make the effort to get my mum to visit them, but if I don't do it, who will? Asking my brother to visit my grandma with his family is like the toughest thing and he always have ton of excuses. He is busy, tell me who is not???

My brother mini me

Visited my two littles cute niece and nephew, have not see them since January and they do grow fast.

My nephew look exactly like my brother when he was little, amazing.

Wen yu is already a big girl and she is now friendlier to me, so nice.

New kitchen toys

I am sucker for electrical gadgets and kitchen appliances, i have two new additional to my kitchen, they are amazing.


ta ta...here you are...:

Aren't they cute? The pop corn taste so good hahah.

Give thanks

There are many things that happened around me but I have nothing to share except to tell all my beloved, give thanks each day for able to wake up and feel the sun and appreciate all we have. Count our blessing and not our lost. Focus on the the good and not the bad. I know all these are easier said then done but I hope we don't have to learn only thru hard lessons. When we are put thru the test and trial, we know it all happened for a reason and we are special to be the chosen one and the messager to all around us.

Love you all.

Start of the new Journey

We have started our first step for IVF, a consent from the doctor to proceed with the procedure, if you are not awared, you have to be legally married to opt for IVF in Singapore.

Due to the co-funding by the government, IVF is popular right now at the public hospital, our first scheduled appointment is in May (earliest). I am not sure if I am ready for the blood test and the endless self-injection but since this the decision that we have made, I will not look back.

Lost of voice

I asked Louis, 'do you think the throat infection is caused by the drinking at Mambo?' He replied 'Yes' without thinking. Am I really too old and frail to party? One girl's night out and I am ill for more than 7 days? I started feeling unwell on Thursday and totally lost my voice on Sunday before I decided that the condition is too bad to self-medicate. The throat inflammation casues fever and Panadol can't seem to work.

Due to blocked nose and high body temperature, I can't sleep at night. At one point, I almost wanted to get up and write '25 random things about myself' but was too lazy to move.

If you asked me if I will party like no tomorrow again, I will if ONLY for a very strong and good reason. Like Bitchy Tiong and Big Boobs Hen's night (I think the rest of my girlfriends are all married), and of cause like all cicumtances, there will be exception but the execption better be damn GOOD.

By the way, Mambo is not the as same as before. The songs are not as nice, people not as happening and good looking, drinks are more deadly. What's stays the same is the layout of the disco, the crowd outside Zouk and the ever so unfriendly but efficient bouncers.

Mambo night and Retro Party

Just came back from a Retro Theme function and I have the itch for a crazy Mambo night out. Wanted to enjoy the Mambo party before my biological clock stop me from doing so. I must admit, party all night has become quite a thing of the past for me. Can barely survived after a long night out and it takes me extra long days to recover from the drinking and the lack of sleep. But then, I will only be older by the day, must as well enjoy the party while I still can right? Of cause, there will be other changes that stop me from partying, so before all that happen, Mambo party is confirmed on next Wednesday night (I am taking leave the next day to recuperate). Let's party!!

Amela, be ready to drink, Vanessa is thirsty.

Alternatives

Althought we have made the decision but we are open to alternatives. Will probably seek 2nd opinion or try out TCM. No harming trying right???

Have you heard of this TCM Clinic at Jurong East that are famous for their fertiliy treatment?? Yes, this is the one that my mum recommended and I said I don't need her advice...:P Will make an appointment and see how it go. Anyway, we know that we can start the procedure anytime when we want it..

Decision made!!

Had a discussion with our Doctor today and we have come to a conclusion. Went thru the consulting session with the Head nurse to understand the whole procedure and what to expect. What shock us most other than the daily injection which we are aleady aware is the COST. After government subsidy, we still need to folk out more than $1k cash for the procedure, that's provided everything goes on smoothly, else the cash payment will be alot of higher.

One cycle is will take around 6-8 weeks and I can start anytime after going thru a consent session with doctor (Apparently, you need doctor consent to go thru the procedure). We have decided to start our first cycle in March after our trip to Melbourne. Pray for us.

This is the whole procedure.....can you see that there are alot of $$$ here and there? They are just the miscellanous costs.

Respect for the elder...

What kind of respect would you have for a man who once force his wife into prostitution to support him? His first wife left him, probably because of this, he had a second wife and hisotry repeat itself. Frankly, for me, this person do not hold any 'respect' in my heart. I have no fond memories of him, all I can remember was the unreasonable demand for respect and his fat ego. He is definitely fierce and all his siblings are fearful of him, so are the rest of the family. I seriously think that respect are earned thru good cause but fear. In the past, during CNY, he expect Juniors to visit him but he never visited his elder sister. He would host dinner at his place and praises need to be sing for his cooking else he would be offended. In time of need, his elder sister lend him her lending help but the kindness was never return even when he drove branded car, wore branded watch and host expensive dinner.

Now that he is gone, his elder sister will mourn the lost of her brother but did the brother even think of the sister? As for the me, the junior, no emotion attached to what have happened.

'O' Level Result

We had a little celebration today at Zhou's resturants to celebrate the good 'O' Level result that my cousins achieved. My ah boy score 15 points for best 6 subjects, not really the best to some but was really shocking good in our eyes. Another cousin score 7 points for best 6 subjects, this is her usual grade so we kind of expect it. Today, I found that she has apply for RJC with a 3 points, amazingly crazy. 7 - 2 points for CCA - 2 points for higher chinese = 3 points. What is this man? I am already glad and happy that I got 14 points for my best 5 subjects that lend me a place in Marketing course in SP.

Oh, found out that my grand-uncle's daughter who also sat for her 'O' Level last year score 6 points for her best 6 subjects today, what has the world become..hahahaha